Cara.Bender (@carabender32)

BoYs ARe EaSIer has been the biggest lie I've been told since becoming a boy mom. #boymom #samekid #ripfingernail #riptoenail

The disappointment is real... Good role Catholic School education. #boobs #1stgrader #realdissapointment

so close... #kesha #doyouwannahaveaslumberpartyinmybasement?

she's an icon... #justlookatit

living her best life, wishing she was the only child 😁 #problemchild #snacksarelife #justlikemom #happybabes

snacks are life.... its the winks for me 🫠 #mommasgirl #snacks #shareswell #notfriendly #winks

caught a turtle 🥴 so proud 😬 I promise he has shorts on! no child or turtle was hurt only momssky rocketing anxiety.😅 #snapper #bites #itsfinemom #raisingboys #sendhelp #sendmoney

When the house bully finally gets a lil taste of karma. #youngestchild #onlydaughter #housebully #familymenace #graceful #justakid

sure am 🥴😅 #cleanhousenever

did better than his dad tho.. 🤷🏼‍♀️ #soclose #manofthehouse

Spaghetti hits differently in this house... #Spaghetticonnoisseur #pastaislife #toddlers

Shes spicey #demur #loud #angry #dramatic #cute

had me in the first half. #shitmytoddlersays #theabsoluteworst

embrace the chaos 🥴 #survivingmornings #lifeiwthtoddlers #pink #imalrite #imjustfine #gofast

did it all for the candy bucket... #menace #justhangingaround #dontaskdonttell

because I'm a lady... #smurfs #becauseimalady #smurfette #youraboy #nailedit

it's boo 😅 #adventuresofa2yrold #lovehim #3rdchildproblems

Wish my husband gave me money the way he does the snap-on guy... #snapon #dontaskdonttell #Ineededit #snaponhowdoyoudoit #basicallygunnapayforitself #fybhb

Waking up and realizing your still born into the same crazy family.... #3rdchildproblems #andwerelive #shaboozey #partdemon #lovehim

living her best life... just letting her... #sassy #justababy #onlygirl #4thchild

Born into the world of 3 older brothers... #onlydaughter #3bigbros #chaos #unfazed #shaboozey

When your dad let's you drive for .2 miles...🥴 #wesurvived #butdidudie #safetynot1st #3rdchild #savage #purehappiness

She is strong, she is independent, she had a diapy change and is ready for a nap.... #onlydaughter #thankgoodnessfornaptime #napislife #lookingrough

when that bottle hits hard.... #babygirl #littlebottlebigdreams #middaynaps #shaboozey #thankgoodnessfornaptime #onlydaughter #understoodtheasignment

it's his world we're just living in it 🥴 #toddlers #nospoonneeded #slightlyevil #greyhairstarter #absolutelynofuckgiven

Hes all in... 🤦🏼‍♀️ #thelook #notallowedoutside #nostrangerdanger #contemplating #norisknoreward #2ndchild

when you roll up to early for school pick up and have to spend quality time in the car with ur mom and lil sister 🥴🤪 #wildchild #everythingisno #noooo

some call it siblimg love and some call it siblong rivalry... whatever it is I'd wish it'd stop 🥴😋 #Babyboy #babygirl #siblings #brotherlylove #sisterlylove #brother #sister #bigbro #lilsis #besties #enemies #chaos #poormom

When nap time hits and ur confused why ur not in PJs... #momsfault #imjustababy #sosleepy #allboogers #putmetobed #girlboss

I'm just a girl... trying to drive in Wisconsin! 🤣🤣😓 #mistakesweremade #imjustagirl #wisconsin #Wisconsindriving #femaledrivenonly #fullsend #dontyellatme #illcry