@catwomanizer

Salam dari aku, perempuan usia 37 tahun, tidak menikah, childfree, di hari Senin siang ♥️

Pernah ga nanya ke diri sendiri, sebenernya apa yang bikin ga nyaman? Karena yang kita utarakan keluar, biasanya sih cerminan dari sesuatu yang belum selesai di dalam. Jujur berdasarkan pengalaman sendiri, lebih ga nyaman ketika melihat pasangan berantem di depan umum. Liat yang bermesraan…

Mereka yang kamu anggap “lebih” bisa ada di titik itu karena ada harga yang sudah mereka bayarkan. Kamu gimana?

“Don’t bite the hand that feeds you” kata peribahasa. Artinya, jangan malah disrespect, nunjukkin rasa ga bersyukur, atau ngecewain dan ngelukain orang yang udah nolongin kamu. Paling sebel kalau dijawab “Lah, kan gua juga ga minta bantuan lu” padahal jelas-jelas kita offer support saat dia putus…

Just me, nature, and peaceful serenity. As @evi.nardi said “I fully respect the people who choose to be responsible parents, but it is just not for me.” 📍 Danau Paisupok, Banggai, Sulawesi Tengah

“Terserah kamu aja deh, aku lagi males mikir…” Familiar sama kalimat ini? FYI, mental load is the invisible cognitive and emotional labor of planning, organizing, and maintaining a household. Without realizing or meaning any harm, seringkali, “terserah” bisa nambahin beban ke pasangan kita yang…

Tambahan: Keenam, apa definisi “selingkuh” menurut kalian? Banyak pasangan masuk ke pernikahan dengan asumsi dan ekspektasi yang nggak pernah dikomunikasiin, entah soal mau punya anak, uang, peran rumah tangga, sampai s-eks. Dan baru ketauan ga cocoknya setelah ngucap “Ya, saya bersedia”. Ya…

Pernah nggak, lagi kesel sama seseorang, terus tiba-tiba nyadar, eh iya ya, aku juga ada andilnya di sini? Introspeksi bukan soal siapa yang salah. It’s about asking yourself: is how I’m showing up aligned with the person I want to be? 🤔

Contoh kecilnya: habis jalan seharian, pasangan (atau sahabat) bilang capek. Kamu punya tiga opsi untuk ngerespons: A: "Gini aja masa capek?" - dismissive, langsung di-shut down B: "Yaudah, kita pulang aja!" - galak dan loncat ke solusi tanpa dengerin dulu C: "lya ya, capek juga jalan seharian…

If you are in Kyoto and looking for a proper reset, make the 1.5 hour journey north to Kurama Onsen. Tucked in the mountains, it is the kind of place that slows everything down in the best way. At ¥2,500 per adult, it is on the steeper side compared to most onsens and sentos in Japan, which…

Learning the art of slowing down, one stem at a time 💐

Being bored is pretty great, actually. And for that, I'm grateful ◡̈

In my relationship, Joe is the wife, while I am the princess 👸🏻 And may this kind of love find you, at least once, in your lifetime. Amen 🙏🏻

She was good at sales, and she had a wild dream to be a CEO by 32. I smiled as I showed her everything I had built by 35. “You’ll get there,” I assured her. “And you’ll have more privilege and freedom than you could ever dream of—because the layoff that once felt like the end of your world? It…

Akhirnyaaa memutuskan beli iPhone 16 Pro Max di Apple Store di Jepang, berhubung iPhone 13 Pro Max sebelumnya dicuri orang di dalam pesawat ketika pesawat sedang proses landing di Haneda 🤧 As promised, berikut FAQ yang kemarinan sempat ditanyakan: 1. Berapa pajak bea cukai iPhone yang dibeli di…

Is this the Indonesian version of teamLab? I’ll let you be the judge. Find out more only at @supernova.dream by @jktgo x @nuansa.concept ✨

Deleted scene and more 💛

Heart eyes emoji forever 😍😍😍

Can you guess our main Love Language? 😆 feat @jcuzzee

I was ready to get away because he had his finger up my butt in an attempt to make me laugh for the video and he succeeded 💩

Long time no @SKIMS

NEW TEETH omagah thank you for all your hard work, drg. @Deviana Maria

As someone with ~mild ADHD, I generally feel overwhelmed when I’m required to do multi-step admin tasks, and sometimes I just want to share my feelings of dread and frustration with my life partner. I don’t always need him to help solve all my problems, but I appreciate the fact that he…

“It’s ok, just let me be in the corner so if Joe and I don’t work out, you guys can just crop me out of the frame,” then proceeded to laugh at my own joke 😂 Tau diri aja yekan, abis itu juga w minggir biar mereka ada foto keluarga tanpa gw. Also, how cute are we?? I didn’t get the memo, but still…

🇮🇩🤸🏻‍♀️🇮🇸 — 📍Hrífunes Nature Park, #Iceland #hrifunes #hrifunesguesthouse

We take being #childfree seriously ✂️ Joe did a ton of research dan inisiatif vasektomi November 2022 lalu supaya aku bisa lepas pil KB (setelah konsumsi pil KB nonstop selama 11 tahun dan struggle dengan segala efek sampingnya, seperti low libido dan vaginal dryness). Joe pun rutin lakukan cek…