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@justbeingmelani

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✨Founder of the We Do Not Care Club www. wedonotcareclub.com for Merch ONLY ACCOUNT

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  • This is Married Life. Choose your battles.😂 – video Pinned , 2.5M views

    This is Married Life. Choose your battles.😂. #marriedlifehumor #laundryday #teamwork #marriedlifebelike

  • Call me only if you Sick Sick… like emergency sick – video Pinned , 1.5M views
  • Had a moment this evening. Just thank you. It is still so unreal to think.. all of this in a… – video , 38.1K views, duration 1:21

    9.7K likes 620 comments 83 shares 184 saves

    Had a moment this evening. Just thank you. It is still so unreal to think.. all of this in a little over a year. 🥹 God, I am so grateful. Sisters.. Just Thank You. #livingonpurpose Founded the We Do Not Care Club® • Built a Global Sisterhood of Millions • New York Times Bestselling Author • #2…

  • IT'S OFFICIAL! THE WE DO NOT CARE CLUB PODCAST WITH MELANI SANDERS IS HERE! And baby, we have some… – video , 34K views, duration 0:52

    4.9K likes 308 comments 194 shares 190 saves

    IT'S OFFICIAL! THE WE DO NOT CARE CLUB PODCAST WITH MELANI SANDERS IS HERE! And baby, we have some THINGS to talk about! 😂 PREMIERES OCTOBER 21! Unfiltered conversations. Real talk. ZERO apologies! 🎧 Listen wherever you get your podcasts or watch the full episodes on YouTube! CLICK THE LINK IN MY…

  • At this stage of life, bedtime has rules: the thermostat goes down to 68, the pajamas are hanging… – video , 22K views, duration 0:49

    1.4K likes 64 comments 23 shares 63 saves

    #LOrealParisPartner At this stage of life, bedtime has rules: the thermostat goes down to 68, the pajamas are hanging up like church clothes, and nobody needs anything else from me. 😂 I’m partnering with @loréal paris usa to add Triple Power Rich Night Moisturizer to my nighttime non-negotiables…

  • Midlife women are out here managing hormones, careers, families, aging parents, sleep deprivation… – video , 85.8K views, duration 2:41

    20K likes 1K comments 1.9K shares 836 saves

    Midlife women are out here managing hormones, careers, families, aging parents, sleep deprivation, mystery symptoms, and medical gaslighting… but sure, let’s keep pretending everything is fine. We do not care. We’re talking about it. And thank you, Senator @Kirsten Gillibrand , for using your…

  • Please be sure you are following me. We.Do.Not.Care…. That’s the message. For all New and Existing… – video , 170K views, duration 2:40

    35K likes 1.8K comments 4.6K shares 1.2K saves

    Please be sure you are following me. We.Do.Not.Care…. That’s the message. For all New and Existing members, put in the comments what we do not care about today, so we can add them to our list. #wdnc #wedonotcareclub #perimenopause #menopause

  • Who else is becoming More and MORE disturbed about the foods we are consuming? This is something… – video , 185K views

    Who else is becoming More and MORE disturbed about the foods we are consuming? This is something WE DO CARE about. Please put in the comments what disturbs you most, so we can add those to the list. #perimenopause #menopause #postmenopause #whatsinourfood

  • Sisters, why did nobody tell us that vaginal moisturizer and lubricant are not the same thing? We… – video , 16.7K views, duration 1:31

    1.1K likes 73 comments 67 shares 124 saves

    #ReplensPartner Sisters, why did nobody tell us that vaginal moisturizer and lubricant are not the same thing? We are really out here having to learn everything ourselves! 🤦🏾‍♀️
Ongoing vaginal dryness? Replens Long-Lasting Vaginal Moisturizer delivers moisture for up to three days. Discomfort…

  • We.Do.Not.Care. No…seriously. – video , 85.6K views, duration 2:33

    19K likes 1.1K comments 1.9K shares 584 saves

  • We. Do. Not. Care. Friendship Edition For all New and Existing Members, please share in the… – video , 125K views, duration 2:10

    24K likes 902 comments 1.2K shares 672 saves

    We. Do. Not. Care. Friendship Edition For all New and Existing Members, please share in the comments what We Do Not Care about today #wdnc #perimenopause #menopause #postmenopause

  • We.Do.Not.Care. Spouse/Partner Edition. For all new and existing members, please leave what you do… – video , 115K views, duration 2:37

    23K likes 927 comments 3.9K shares 1.1K saves

    We.Do.Not.Care. Spouse/Partner Edition. For all new and existing members, please leave what you do not care about in the comments so we can add them to the list. #wdnc #wedonotcareclub #midlife #menopause #perimenopause

  • Nobody prepared me for watching my dog get older. Nobody prepared me for my kids slowly needing me… – video , 74K views, duration 1:19

    14K likes 1.9K comments 431 shares 432 saves

    Nobody prepared me for watching my dog get older. Nobody prepared me for my kids slowly needing me less. Nobody prepared me for looking in the mirror and seeing my body change. I thought midlife was one thing. It turns out it’s a thousand little goodbyes happening all at once. If you’re here too……

  • 🚨 OFFICIAL WDNC™ HR UPDATE 🚨 The We Do Not Care Club has officially submitted its first round of… – video , 146K views, duration 2:43

    26K likes 774 comments 3.7K shares 1.2K saves

    🚨 OFFICIAL WDNC™ HR UPDATE 🚨 The We Do Not Care Club™ has officially submitted its first round of requested Employee Handbook revisions to Human Resources departments worldwide. We believe it’s time the workplace became a little more understanding of women navigating perimenopause, menopause, and…

  • This week’s WDNC Sisterhood Incident Report has arrived. 😂🚨 We’re not losing our minds. We’re just… – video , 299K views, duration 2:21

    53K likes 3K comments 9.6K shares 2.1K saves

    This week’s WDNC Sisterhood Incident Report has arrived. 😂🚨 We’re not losing our minds. We’re just sharing one brain cell. Comment your latest incident, share with a sister, and if you’re new here… welcome home. 💕 #WeDoNotCareClub #WDNC #Perimenopause #Menopause #PostMenopause

  • 🚨 WDNC Sisterhood Incident Report 🚨Be sure you are Following so you are notified when we have new… – video , 245K views, duration 2:20

    49K likes 3.1K comments 8.3K shares 1.8K saves

    🚨 WDNC Sisterhood Incident Report 🚨Be sure you are Following so you are notified when we have new incidents to report (there’s a lot)🤦🏾‍♀️😂 The reports continue to come in, and at this point, we’re not even investigating anymore. We’re just documenting. Today’s incidents were submitted by Sisters…

  • 🚨 WDNC™ SISTERHOOD INCIDENT REPORT 🚨 Sisters, the incident reports continue to roll in, and after… – video , 636K views, duration 2:08

    95K likes 6K comments 17K shares 3.9K saves

    🚨 WDNC™ SISTERHOOD INCIDENT REPORT 🚨 Sisters, the incident reports continue to roll in, and after reviewing the evidence, one thing is clear… We are definitely not alone. 😂 Thank you to every sister who continues to submit her reports and remind us that we’re all navigating this season together…

  • WDNC™ Sisterhood Incident Report 🚨 Sisters please share this report. These “We’re Not All There”… – video , 777K views, duration 3:09

    126K likes 7K comments 30K shares 5.7K saves

    WDNC™ Sisterhood Incident Report 🚨 Sisters please share this report. These “We’re Not All There” incidents come directly from our sisterhood. After reviewing the evidence, this is all we need to confirm that we are absolutely not alone. #WDNC #WeDoNotCareClub #Perimenopause #Menopause #PostMenopause

  • The We Do Not Care Club™ merch is live for a limited time. Only on the website nowhere else. Link… – video , 515K views, duration 2:36

    99K likes 4K comments 17K shares 4.7K saves

    The We Do Not Care Club™ merch is live for a limited time. Only on the website nowhere else. Link in bio. I hand-picked this drop, and it’s limited for a reason. If it’s not on the official site, it’s not ours. Scammers can keep their knockoffs — we do not care. Grab yours before it’s gone. #WDNC…

  • The WDNC Club merch is finally here and I tried on every single piece 😂 I'm wearing a large and as… – video , 19.5K views, duration 1:06

    2K likes 106 comments 44 shares 93 saves

    The WDNC Club merch is finally here and I tried on every single piece 😂 I'm wearing a large and as you can see… I probably should have sized up 👀 Size up, sis. You're welcome. This is drop #3 and my last two drops sold out. These are LIMITED EDITION — once they're gone, they're gone for real…

  • Happy 1st Birthday to the We Do Not Care Club™ 💕 Together, we created more than a moment. We… – video , 367K views, duration 3:12

    101K likes 13K comments 4.5K shares 4.2K saves

    Happy 1st Birthday to the We Do Not Care Club™ 💕 Together, we created more than a moment. We created a sisterhood. A place where women can laugh, heal, vent, cry, grow, evolve, and simply be themselves without apology. This past year has reminded me that even in a world filled with noise…

  • We. Do. Not. Care. That’s the message. All New & Existing members of the We Do Not Care Club… – video , 221K views, duration 2:15

    31K likes 1.2K comments 2.9K shares 1.1K saves

    We. Do. Not. Care. That’s the message. All New & Existing members of the We Do Not Care Club, please post in the comments what We Do Not Care about today. BE SURE YOU ARE FOLLOWING me to stay up to date on what’s happening in the WDNC Club😎 #wdnc #perimenopause #menopause #justbeingmelani

  • WDNC’s very first Coloring Experience. San Diego… y’all owe me nothing. 💕🖍️ The room was full of… – video , 18.8K views, duration 2:28

    2.1K likes 133 comments 34 shares 79 saves

    WDNC’s very first Coloring Experience. San Diego… y’all owe me nothing. 💕🖍️ The room was full of laughter, sisterhood, midlife stories, crayons, wine, a little chaos, love and a whole lotta WE DO NOT CARE Club™ energy. Music By: Acire Ranee To see Sisters show up, sit down, color, talk, laugh…

  • This book is dedicated to the woman holding it all together with a claw clip, unstructured hair… – video , 24.6K views, duration 2:16

    3.9K likes 316 comments 202 shares 192 saves

    This book is dedicated to the woman holding it all together with a claw clip, unstructured hair, and iced coffee that has been microwaved 3 times. WDNC is a Sisterhood where we have thrown in the towel on perfectionism, people pleasing, prioritizing everyone else before ourselves, comparison…. You…

  • We. Do. Not. Care. That’s the message. All new and existing members, go ahead and put what We Do… – video , 220K views, duration 2:20

    42K likes 1.6K comments 4.8K shares 1.5K saves

    We. Do. Not. Care. That’s the message. All new and existing members, go ahead and put what We Do Not Care about today in the comments. #wdnc #perimenopause #menopause #postmenopause

  • WDNC, it’s time!!! Our very first We Do Not Care Club Coloring Book. It’s PARTY Time!!!! San Diego… – video , 28.4K views, duration 0:41

    2.6K likes 80 comments 47 shares 67 saves

    WDNC, it’s time!!! Our very first We Do Not Care Club Coloring Book. It’s PARTY Time!!!! San Diego —April 28th Philadelphia — May 13th (our 1st Birthday) St. Louis — May 6th SOLD OUT 🎨 Link in bio — tickets + coloring book.

  • We’re all dealing with trauma in some form—sometimes our own, sometimes others’. What’s something… – video , 66.2K views, duration 3:31

    9.3K likes 585 comments 302 shares 393 saves

    We’re all dealing with trauma in some form—sometimes our own, sometimes others’. What’s something you’ve recognized in yourself or others? No advice—just shared perspectives. #perimenopause #menopause #postmenopause #wdnc

  • We Do Not Care. That’s the message. All New and Existing members, please post in the comments what… – video , 730K views, duration 2:28

    102K likes 4.2K comments 16K shares 4K saves

    We Do Not Care. That’s the message. All New and Existing members, please post in the comments what We Do Not Care about today. #wdnc #perimenopause #menopause #postmenopause #justbeingmelani

  • Sisters… I opened my coloring book today and got emotional. Because this wasn’t created from… – video , 81.5K views, duration 1:35

    15K likes 1K comments 286 shares 408 saves

    Sisters… I opened my coloring book today and got emotional. Because this wasn’t created from confidence. It was created from doing it scared. And what I kept thinking about wasn’t me… it was you. I want you to feel calm. I want you to feel seen. I want you to sit down, color, and just… be. No…

  • I completely, 1000% agree with you. I’m off, but something is causing me to be off off. Sisters… – video , 61.4K views, duration 1:23

    8.4K likes 1.1K comments 197 shares 229 saves

    Replying to @lala.mama2020#WDNCClub I completely, 1000% agree with you. I’m off, but something is causing me to be off off. Sisters, anybody else Off Off lately? #wdnc #perimenopause #menopause #postmenopause

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@justbeingmelani TikTok stats

@justbeingmelani has 1,514,526 TikTok followers as of . That is about 1.5M followers.

Followers
1,514,526
Likes
15,846,229
Videos
512
Verified account
Yes
Likes per video
30.9K
Average video length
2:07
Median per post
101K views · 20K likes · 1K comments · 1.9K shares · 672 saves
Average engagement per view - follower
21.1% - 0.03
Average views per follower
0.13
Most viewed recent posts
  1. “WDNC™ Sisterhood Incident Report 🚨 Sisters please share…” · 777K views · 126K likes · 7K comments ·
  2. “We Do Not Care. That’s the message. All New and Existing…” · 730K views · 102K likes · 4.2K comments ·
  3. “🚨 WDNC™ SISTERHOOD INCIDENT REPORT 🚨 Sisters, the incident…” · 636K views · 94.8K likes · 6K comments ·
Pinned posts
2, with 2.5M and 1.5M views
Last post
(8 days before this check)
Posting rate
about 3.7 posts a month
TikTok content labels
Daily Life (13 of 20 posts), Lifestyle (13 of 20 posts)
Hashtags used most
#wdnc (22), #menopause (22), #perimenopause (19), #postmenopause (12), #WeDoNotCareClub (10)

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@justbeingmelani follower history

Since (18 days), @justbeingmelani gained 997 followers, from 1,513,529 to 1,514,526. Is @justbeingmelani gaining or losing followers? Gaining: about +55 a day since .

FollowersLikes1.505M15.75M1.51M15.8M1.515M15.85M1.52M15.9M1.525M15.95M1,513,529 followers on Oct 28, 20261,513,524 followers on Oct 30, 20261,514,526 followers on Nov 15, 202615,832,123 likes on Oct 28, 202615,832,759 likes on Oct 30, 202615,846,229 likes on Nov 15, 2026Oct 28Oct 30Nov 15

Followers on the left axis, likes on the right. 3 records since . Recorded when this profile is refreshed here; a line joins two recorded days — the days between are not estimated. How the follower history is recorded

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Nov 20261,514,526+1,002
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