#defaultparent

People think the default parent is just “the mental load.” It’s not. It’s being the one who’s always on. The one physically there unless you’ve officially, formally, diarised half an hour off three months in advance. It’s the assumption of responsibility. Always. Be honest… Are you the default…

This scene deserves to be talked about🎬 #allherfault #defaultparent #parentingreality #momlife #parentingtruths

First off, if you haven’t watched All Her Fault, you need to. It’s sooo good. And second… the way I KNOW moms felt Jenny? Being the default parent is hard. Not because you can’t handle it but because everyone assumes you always will. Make sure to follow for real mom talk & support for moms who…

Reenacting it everytime it happens. How am I still the default parent when he's the stay at home dad!?!? #defaultparent #momlife #momhumor #MomsofTikTok #parentlife

One of the loneliest parts of being the default parent is realising you can be standing right next to someone you love and still feel completely alone in the responsibility you’re carrying. It’s the mental load nobody sees. The appointments you remember, the things you anticipate, the nights you…

I don’t think being the default parent is good or bad—but if you’re struggling with it, this might help. #twoparentsandapod #podcast #newparents #defaultparent

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Be honest: what’s one invisible parenting responsibility you wish someone else would fully own without you having to ask? #DefaultParent #MentalLoad #InvisibleLabor #MomLifeUnfiltered #ParentingTruths

two surgeons but only one gets to put their phone down. Meredith Grey and Derek Shepherd’s argument in Grey’s Anatomy hits different when you’re the default parent. she missed a heart-liver transplant, then had to explain why always being available costs her something too. #greysanatomy…

I wouldn’t trade it though 🫶🏼 #parenting #motherhood #defaultparent

24/7, 7 days a week as the job of mom.Some days are challenging and overwhelming, but I wouldn’t trade any of it for my babies. #defaultparent #motherhood #momlife

I was dreading jumping right back into default parent mode and here comes my Prince Charming 💅💕 #marriage #mentalload #collegesweetheart #defaultparent #dadsofig *This content has been reposted, certain offers or keywords may not be active*

My daughter said she hated me today. #sad #defaultparent #fyp